Why I Joined Borrow My Doggy

If you follow me on social media, you might’ve noticed a bit of dog-related content on my stories recently. As much as I would love a dog someday, none of the lovely dogs are actually mine. I have been borrowing them from dog owners who use the website Borrow My Doggy.

FUSEBOX: For young creatives in Kingston Upon Thames

I’ve been sniffing around the building site at the back of John Lewis in Kingston for ages. I had heard the renovation was going to include a co-working space. This piqued my interest! I had also heard that the project would include some space for Creative Youth. They are a local charity working with young…

My Top 10 Wellbeing Tips

Every month in my newsletter, I let my readers into some of my favourite self-care and wellbeing tips. Through various features, I’ve also gathered advice from others. Some of these people are real-life experts in the health and wellbeing sector. This week, I’ve been looking back on the wealth of wellbeing tips I’ve gathered through my newsletter.

What is a Sound Bath?

Last weekend, I treated myself to my first-ever in-person sound bath. SInce then, I’ve had several people ask me: What is a sound bath and what are the benefits? The impacts of a sound bath will differ from person to person, but they can reduce stress and anxiety as well as increase energy levels.

My Bucket List Plans for Turning 40

This year, I’m setting out on one big bucket list adventure. Ahead of my 40th Birthday in December, I’ve set myself a little challenge. There’s some stuff that I’ve had on my bucket list for a while. So I thought, why not make it into a ‘thing’ in the lead-up to my BIG 40?

Setting Goals For The Year Ahead

If you’ve followed my musings for a while, you’ll know I love setting New Year goals. For me, it’s not a case of HAVING to set them. It’s more a case of WANTING to.  They keep me focused on things I would like to achieve, and the geek in me loves to keep track of…

A Look Back at The Goals I Set in 2022

Happy 2023 🎉 It’s been a little while since I’ve been in this space, but it’s good to be back.  November and December were busy months at The Mindful Gingernut HQ, but I’m back and raring to go.  Before I get carried away with 2023 antics, here’s a little roundup of where I got to…

October: Dartmoor, Stalking Deer and an Autumn Retreat

Wow! What an epic month of adventuring October turned out to be! I can go months without seeing people, and then I have a crazy month of socialising and going places.  Being an introvert at heart, I find socialising tiring. So as much as it’s been fun, I’m ready to hide away for a bit now!

Post-Therapy Reflections

It’s been almost two months since I finished going to psychotherapy, and there is still a lot to reflect on.  It has been one of the most insightful experiences I’ve been through so far. I learnt so much more about myself in those 12 sessions. In this week’s musings, I want to share some general…

A Look Back At September

In a month where we said our final goodbyes to my Auntie and the Queen, it’s been hard to get on with life as ‘normal’. Although it’s been a difficult month, it has gone by so quickly. It doesn’t seem like five minutes since the August Bank Holiday weekend, yet here we are in October….

My 2022 Goals in Review – Q3

As if we’re coming to the end of Q3 already 😫. I honestly don’t know where the last quarter has gone, and I’m overwhelmed with how quickly the end of the year is approaching. However, from a goals point of view, I always feel like the last quarter is about seeing and appreciating results rather…

A Look Back At August

I’m a bit later than usual with my ‘Look Back’ due to recent events, but I’m back with a round-up of August, which seems like a lifetime ago already! August was a bit of a strange one this year. We sadly lost one of my Aunties last month, which has left my family mourning the…

Thank You M’am For Everything

It wasn’t my plan to write about the death of Queen Elizabeth II today. But life rarely goes to plan, and it felt wrong to write about anything else. I want to start this post by addressing the fact that I know the Queen was not everyone’s cup of tea. Everyone is entitled to their…

My trip to Italy – Part 2

After a lovely long weekend in Ferrara with my friend Magdalena, it was time to head south. I was heading back to Bologna, where I would continue my trip. Magdalena accompanied me to Bologna as she didn’t have to work until that evening.

A Look Back At July

I started July in Italy, albeit on the last day of my trip. I had a late flight home, so I had a full day to explore Bologna before I headed back to the airport. I took the opportunity to climb to the top of the Towers of Bologna, eat some more pizza, and indulge…

My Trip To Italy – Part 1

I’d been dreading June since the beginning of the year. The tenth anniversary of my best friend’s passing loomed like a big dark cloud on the horizon. 

When my then boyfriend announced he would be away for the anniversary, I found myself in a quandary. I could stay in Kingston on my own burying my head in the sand or spending the day feeling sad.

My 2022 Goals in Review – Q2

A little later than planned, but I’ve spent the weekend reviewing my goals for this year to see where I am and to think about any further tweaks I need to make as we move into the latter half of 2022.  I find that blogging about my goals helps me to: Check on my progress;…

Ibiza

Does anyone else get an earworm stuck in their head when Ibiza is mentioned? The Vengaboys ‘We’re Going to Ibiza’ springs to mind. I don’t even like the bloody song! Ever since we booked a trip to go ‘back to the Island’, it’s been stuck in my head. On repeat!

A Look Back At June

So here we are, already in the second half of 2022. I’ve been appalling at maintaining my blog this year. It always seems to be the first thing to go on the backburner when life gets busy. The irony is, that’s probably one of the reasons I ended up seeking therapy earlier this year. My…

A Look Back At May

Fresh from a few nights away in Ibiza, I’m back with a look back at May. Looking back on last month, it feels like so long ago my brain can hardly comprehend that it only came to an end less than two weeks ago.  That’s what holidays do to you. You lose yourself in this…

Psychotherapy: Things I’ve Learnt So Far

Earlier this year, my Doctor referred me to a Psychotherapist after my anxiety skyrocketed. Whilst I knew I’d been suffering for a while, I’d never openly spoken about it. At the start of the year, it became impossible for me to manage myself, so I went to see my Doctor. I ended up on a waiting list for psychotherapy and on medication. 

My First Therapy Session

On Thursday this week, I had my first therapy session. After finding myself in a vicious cycle of anxiety led thoughts at the beginning of the year, I found myself on a waiting list for psychotherapy. My appointment date came through a couple of weeks ago, and although I knew the session was looming, it didn’t stir too many emotions in me at the time.

A Look Back At April

I know I say this a lot, but I genuinely don’t know where April went!  It came and went in a flash. We’re currently enjoying a bank holiday weekend here in the UK, and it’s nice to have some time to stop and catch my breath after a hectic month.  Here’s a little look back…

Claiming Universal Credit

Would you like to know a secret? Did you know that if you’re self-employed and work in the United Kingdom, you could be eligible to claim Universal Credit? I’ve been claiming Universal Credit (UC) for just under a year, and it’s been an absolute godsend, especially in the early days of starting my business.  With…