Why Being Single at 40 Feels So Different

I’m not gonna lie, being single at 40 feels different. When I found myself single at 30, I started a new adventure and moved to London. Dating wasn’t difficult in the city. But when I became single again at the beginning of this year, after almost 5 years in a relationship, singledom felt different.

Friendship

This post was originally published on 6th October 2018 and updated on 9th August 2020. I’ve been thinking a lot about friendship lately and what it means to me. I don’t have a large circle of friends, more pockets of friends whom I’ve met at different stages in my life. There are those I’ve known…

Valentines

This post was originally published on 14th February 2019 and reposted on 14th February 2020. Happy Valentines to you my lovely followers ❤️ Whether you’ve been celebrating today with your partners, your friends, or by yourself, I hope you’ve been kind to yourself today. This is my first single valentines for a couple of years….

Honesty

This post was originally published on 29th June 2019 and updated on 24th August 2019. Earlier this year, I wrote a blog post called Love or Loyalty? For me, without love, there is no purpose. However, since writing the original post, I have found myself asking if love and loyalty are the most important things…

Is self care easier if you’re single?

A few weeks ago, I attended a friends hen party. The hen party was fun. But something was troubling me. I was staying in a hotel that night with another friend. While we were busy getting ready for the hen party, she started pouring her heart out to me. It appeared that her marriage was…

Knife crime, dirty laundry, and self care

The last couple of weeks have made me realise just how important it is to have a self care bank. If I hadn’t been able to cash in on some of my self care reserves, I definitely wouldn’t have got through it as well as I have. Most of the drama that has unfolded, has…

Balancing Relaxation and Adventure in Portugal

In Portugal, I try to balance exploration and relaxation during my holiday. Recognising the need for self-care, I alternate days of adventure with rest. Enjoying hotel amenities, I incorporate gym sessions and spa treatments into my routine. I learn the importance of downtime, aiming to return home rejuvenated, not exhausted.

Signing out of 2018

As the year comes to a close, reflection brings forth a resolve for self-improvement in 2019. The pursuit of greater wellbeing entails building a bank of resources for self-care. This includes outdoor exercise, mindful reflection, social interactions, prioritising sleep, and not taking things personally. Here’s to a balanced and joyful 2019.

As One Chapter Comes To An End, Another Begins

As one chapter ends, a new one begins. After a difficult decision and a holiday season apart, I’m finding time to reflect, heal, and focus on what lies ahead. In the midst of uncertainty, self-care and rediscovering my true self have become my priorities. Join me as I navigate this next phase of life.

Change – Part 2

In Change (Part 1), I wrote about the importance of living life. How life was too precious and too short to plod along, and how sometimes it takes a life-changing event to give us the wake-up call we so badly need. In Change (Part 2), I want to share with you, my readers, how a…